Judging of Other’s Character

Are you a good judge of character?

During my life, like you, one finds people who you believe are good and who you believe others are bad normally based on the first impression. With that, one sees mannerisms, behavior and how one dresses plus speech. One sees what that person allows others to see them as. First impressions are usually the most genuine of others that are used as a basis of how one will be treated.

For myself, I trust what I sense being around others more than the person him/her self. Normally, I don’t mix well with too many others so I trust my gut feeling on first impression.

My confession is that I second guessed what I sensed about my ex husband when I first met him. My wrongful behavior cost me ten years of life plus a few to recover. I have become more cautious since my divorce in 1994. Although, my ex hasn’t since he’s been married three times since, unfortunately, for him.

Instead of looking at behavior, at dress, and at speech, look inside of what you sense or feel around someone because it doesn’t lie.

Yours Truly,

Leslie Elizabeth David.