Paying attention to details of your life such work, finances, health, relationship and maintaining a home can keep one busy on a daily, monthly and annual basis. One priorities chooses which is most important at any given time.
Truthfully, the most important detail to pay attention to me are those who you love. If they feel neglected, you might consider finding ways to spend time with them especially if they are doing the same for you. Myself, I haven’t been in a relationship in years which doesn’t bother me because I am content being on my own. Plus, I have people who show up in my life who test my contentment but, so far, I haven’t met that person that life would be better with him. So, my feline female divas are the ones who deserve my attention more. Our relationship has been tested when I flew out on my last vacation and when they were boarded at the time. It was a test of trust since it was my first long time away from them.
My cats are my responsibility to love and to care for so it requires attention of detail of all aspects of life to keep them happy and safe.
Glistening in Fur,
Leslie Elizabeth David.
The Magnificent Modern Mature Woman 