Being born premature due to unfortunate circumstances and low life expectancy, I went through a lot of difficulties as a child into my teen years that effected my self esteem and confidence.
As I grew older, I only wanted to “fit in” and be normal like others in my peers group but it never happened. Like others, I finished high school, went to college then moved out with friends then met someone who I married then eventually divorced.
Post divorce in my thirties, I earned my aerobics certification to be able to teach but decide not to. Dated a few men who were in a serious relationship with but chose not to marry. Later on, I earn my MBA.
Most of my life, I’ve been called a, “free spirit” which I resented but now embrace. I trust my intuition over what people tell me plus their actions and who think that they have control over me. Admittedly, it does test the relationship which it ultimately fails which I get the brunt of the blame. Haven’t lost much sleep over it either.
I’m neither a leader nor a follower because I have chosen my own path. I gravitate towards others who have found their own way.
Yours Truly,
Leslie Elizabeth David.
The Magnificent Modern Mature Woman 