Gaslighter

Someone who I thought was my friend has been gaslighting me because the gifts that I have been given aren’t hers.

We met when she moved from New England to the Midwest to find a man to marry which she did, had four children who are now adults, then divorced. She had placed her happiness and goals dependent on someone else. Oddly, she sees herself superior to me because she was once my supervisor because those in charge bypassed me because I share the same birthday as the CEO who I got along well with. Management feared that we would team up against the opposition in meetings.

Decided not to reach out this time because our lives are on different paths plus she, on her own, must find her own purpose in life beyond the domestic goddess who she thinks she is.

From my understanding, we are all created equal with different gifts, skills and abilities to benefit others to make our world a better place to live. In a sense, a purpose driven life. From this, I hope and pray that she finds her way to a meaningful purpose driven life.

Update: Tried reaching out to her without a response. Her son is getting remarried and she’s not which might be the issue. I encouraged her to live life to the fullest until God answers her prayers

Good News. We had a great conversation which I took responsibility for my behavior as she did hers tonight. My past situation at work of acting wisely will help her with a future event. Learned, apologize and encouraged.

Thank you for your time,

Leslie Elizabeth David.